Divorce advice from senior trooper

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For any of you young troopers out there fixated on getting married, do not marry unless your significant other earns the same income or higher. If possible, avoid marriage all together. If your ex was unemployed, a stay home parent or a minimum wage earner during your marriage, you may be looking at worse case scenario in a divorce proceeding and by way of the family law courts, they can and will get the half of every dollar you earned during marriage, plus alimony, plus half of assets, plus half of retirement, plus legal fee's, plus half of equity in property, etc. Alot of marriages/divorces end up this way. Don't end up like me. To reiterate, do not marry anyone unless your future spouse earns the same income or higher. If possible, avoid marriage all together.

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For any of you young troopers out there fixated on getting married, do not marry unless your significant other earns the same income or higher. If possible, avoid marriage all together. If your ex was unemployed, a stay home parent or a minimum wage earner during your marriage, you may be looking at worse case scenario in a divorce proceeding and by way of the family law courts, they can and will get the half of every dollar you earned during marriage, plus alimony, plus half of assets, plus half of retirement, plus legal fee's, plus half of equity in property, etc. Alot of marriages/divorces end up this way. Don't end up like me. To reiterate, do not marry anyone unless your future spouse earns the same income or higher. If possible, avoid marriage all together.

What does a hurricane, a tornado and your ex wife have in common?
Eventually they will get your house!!

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Yes Sir, if it floats, flies or fux it's cheaper to rent it...

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Anything with tits or tires on it is gonna cost you money!

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Corrections to the above post 😎
If it flies, drives, floats or fux, lease it don’t buy it!

-The Rock

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You have to be brain dead to marry a woman, or live with one.

Do your thing with separate legalities and addresses. Don't get me wrong, women are nice and make my place smell good but they gotta leave when I go to sleep.

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Corrections to the above post 😎
If it flies, drives, floats or fux, lease it don’t buy it!

-The Rock

No disrespect Sir, but as the OP of the first quote, I learned it from my Daddy as a young man in rural Alabama long before anyone would have cared what wise knowledge the Rock stole from us and made his own. You see, The Rock was not born until 1972 and I was born in the mid-60s and my Daddy gave me that little pearl of wisdom on the morning I shipped out to Parris Island for boot camp.

I suppose it really does not matter in the end, so long as you heed the advice. I didn't listen and am stuck living in a trailer on school property to this day. I did have a nice bass boat and house on a foundation before the divorce though.

[deeseenNub]

The court order was only about a year ago. Also, what can I do about the situation with my ex, he was 21 yrs. old when I got pregnant with my son?

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For any of you young troopers out there fixated on getting married, do not marry unless your significant other earns the same income or higher. If possible, avoid marriage altogether. If your ex-was unemployed, a stay home parent or a minimum wage earner during your marriage, you may be looking at worse case scenario in a divorce proceeding and by way of the family law courts, they can and will get the half of every dollar you earned during marriage, plus alimony, plus half of assets, plus half of retirement, plus legal fee's, plus half of equity in property, etc. Alot of marriages/divorces end up this way. Don't end up like me. To reiterate, do not marry anyone unless your future spouse earns the same income or higher. If possible, avoid marriage altogether.

If you are married for more than 10+ years and she did not work, then yes will most likely be paying for alimony. If whatsoever she worked during your marriage even if she has a job now it still counts and as for your home is her name on the deed of the house? She can't always take the house away unless she can afford it.
Child support: Is with your income and her income if a child in common.
Lawyer: Be careful if she does not have a job you might have to pay for her lawyer fees, and more crap.

And always get an affidavit even if she doesn't work, why? Because f she shows a lot of debt Judge will grant you the house because of she cant afford it.
I will come back in a couple of days to check on you.

I wish you well and good luck.

CFE LAW

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This is what happens when you marry the DQ drive thru girl you met on night shift, knock her up, and move her into your double wide. Once she gets bored banging the neighbor and watching your barefoot kids while you work 208 7 days a week, she’s out. Word to the rookie Troopers, beware.