Pillow Talk

Seriously, how can law enforcement officers and corrections officer think it is ok to be married and cheat on their spouse? Not only do they cheat on their spouse they do it with someone they work with or is employed by the same agency. For Pete's sake you are not fooling anyone, everyone knows!
This is ethical? How do you enforce the law and pass judgement when you are basically a piece of crap and are no better than the person you arrest.

Disclaimer: not everyone is doing it but enough are that something needs to be said. Maybe PRB should get involved.

PRB involved! Now that's funny!

PRB involved! Now that's funny!

Why is that funny?

who cares whose boinking who. that's a family matter that should best be handled by the newly promoted captains or maybe the community reach around division.

who cares whose boinking who. that's a family matter that should best be handled by the newly promoted captains or maybe the community reach around division.

When you do one unethical act it then becomes easy to do other unethical acts. It could lead to work place violence, displaced families, ruin careers. So yeah, I'd say a lot of people would care.

Seriously, how can law enforcement officers and corrections officer think it is ok to be married and cheat on their spouse? Not only do they cheat on their spouse they do it with someone they work with or is employed by the same agency. For Pete's sake you are not fooling anyone, everyone knows!
This is ethical? How do you enforce the law and pass judgement when you are basically a piece of crap and are no better than the person you arrest.

Disclaimer: not everyone is doing it but enough are that something needs to be said. Maybe PRB should get involved.

First of all cops are not paid or expected to pass judgement on others, that is what juries and judges are for. Cops are to enforce the law based on the evidence and facts they observe while investigating a complaint.

Second, the amount of infidelity that goes on at CCSO is no more or less than what goes on at all other places of employment. Although the participants may work in the law enforcement career, their actions are human in nature and that you will not stop.

Although cops should strive to live their life the same as a priest, at the end of the day they are both human and human nature will always control some more than others... the same that has happened since the beginning of mankind; just ask Adam about Eve!

Seriously, how can law enforcement officers and corrections officer think it is ok to be married and cheat on their spouse? Not only do they cheat on their spouse they do it with someone they work with or is employed by the same agency. For Pete's sake you are not fooling anyone, everyone knows!
This is ethical? How do you enforce the law and pass judgement when you are basically a piece of crap and are no better than the person you arrest.

Disclaimer: not everyone is doing it but enough are that something needs to be said. Maybe PRB should get involved.

Or, you could man up and deal with your wife cheating on you instead of crying about it here and hoping they both get in trouble via PRB. After all, "Everyone knows" right?

First off I think divorce rate is around 50% in our field. Doing a quick review of the people I know here, half have been divorced at least once. Doesn't make you a bad person in my opinion.
However, fooling around with someone else's spouse or estranged spouse that also works here is a total scumbag move. You talk about 'the brotherhood' out of one corner of your mouth, then go out on the weekend and suddenly you think you're Dirk Diggler.
We all know who is doing what with who and have heard your justification, but we think you are scum just like that ex big shot jail guy who was a total pig and now sells financial plans and claims 'this is what I was always meant to do'...LOL
Just remember, what comes around goes around. 10-15 years ago a Sgt was murdered by a former LT for this. Now angry jail boy is in hot water for being a little too touchy feely.
Those that wanna cheat, at least look elsewhere if you have any kind of life or connections elsewhere. And remember, she was cheating on him with you, she is gonna do it again to you. Then you're gonna be alllll alone. Bye Bye lonely guy. Bu Bye. No one will miss you or your itchy scratchy nether regions... :wink:

Lets end this discussion now before they assign a captain of infidelity affairs :snicker:

Lets end this discussion now before they assign a captain of infidelity affairs :snicker:

Don't you mean chief????????????????