11-05-2006, 10:36 PM
I read this Article in this weeks Newsweek magazine and thought it should appear here. Citizens often find their way here, looking for "DIRT" concerning our personnel, and at times will "Chime In" on a topic they know nothing about. The article was written by Kristen Roman, a 16 year police officer.
" On a recent evening, as I walked with my 5-year-old son into the park near our home, I encountered one of our neighbors. I dont know him that well, but I have seen him in the park many times with his grandchildren, and I'm sure we exchanged names once long ago. I've lived in this neighborhood for 16 years, having moved here when I began my career as a police officer. Many of my neighbors know that I work for the Madison Police Department , so it was not surprising to me that the neighbor I expected to simply pass by in the park that evening knew I worked in law enforcement.
As my son and I headed toward the play equipment, we passed the neighbor, and he and I nodded and smiled politely. Then he turned and asked me if I'd read a recent article about two NYPD officers who had been indicted for various and sundry criminal activities. Honestly, I wasn't paying much attention to the details of the story to which he was referring, because I was distracted by the realization that the only conversation I'd ever had with this neighbor, was a variatiion on the same theme: police misconduct. I realized that he was not interested in weather I'd read the article or what my thoughts were on the matter. Instead, he just wanted to vent about the police to the police. And to him, I was the police. I decided to give him a few minutes to finish his story and then try to politely move on. I suppose I could've responded with my own variation on this theme, such as " Did you hear about the grandfather who abused his grandaughters?' He is, after all, a grandfather. Trust is essential in human relations, professional or otherwise. We entrust doctors with our physical well-being, clergy with our spiritual grownth, teachers with our children, bankers with our money and police officers with our safety. Of course nearly all societal roles carry with them an authority that can be responsibley applied or abused. When that trust is broken-whether by doctors, our teachers, police officers or grandfathers, it is crucial to remember that the acts of a few are not representative of the whole. I am not "the police". I am an individual, proud to work in lawenforcement and certain that I practice my profession responsibly, honestly, passionately and always with a keen awareness of the trust that has been placed in me by those in my community and by those with whom I serve. As human beings , we all have a responsibility to each other and should all be held accountable for our behavior, regardless of our profession. Why, then, is the law-enforcement profession so easily criticized, and why do so many believe they know how to do our job better than we do? Few people think it is their place to tell a doctor, or a carpenter , or a financial advisor how to do his job if they know nothing of what they speak. It is difficult enough to sustain enthusiasm for one's work when a significant portion of the people encountered did not seek you out, and are not pleased that you are there. One can deflect only so much second-guessing, and rude commentary ("I pay your salary!") "Why aren't you out catching real criminals?" "Why didn't they just shoot them in the leg?", before it begins to instill a sense of alienation. A continued absence of support and and an "us vs them" paradigm can breed a type of isolation and disconnect. This, in turn, can create an atmosphere ripe for some people-who got into this profession to make a difference for the better-to take a turn for the worse. Too often , stories printed in newspapers and reported on the 6 o'clock news perpetuate a mistrust of police. The mistakes of a few officers are held out as representative of the profession, or, worse, officers who acted justifiably have doubt cast upon them when none is warranted. And as with media coverage when the occasional plane crashes, an objective perspective is lost because no one hears about the thousands of successful flights that occur each day. Lawenforcement is a noble profession made up of individual men and women who pilot countless successful "flights" in their careers under the most turbulent conditions. A single officer shouldn't be held accountable for every instance of police misconduct any more than a single snowflake should be blamed for a blizzard. It is better to engage meaningfully with officers, avoiding sweeping generalizations, and perhaps even offering a simple thank-you. Odds are it is well deserved and long overdue.
" On a recent evening, as I walked with my 5-year-old son into the park near our home, I encountered one of our neighbors. I dont know him that well, but I have seen him in the park many times with his grandchildren, and I'm sure we exchanged names once long ago. I've lived in this neighborhood for 16 years, having moved here when I began my career as a police officer. Many of my neighbors know that I work for the Madison Police Department , so it was not surprising to me that the neighbor I expected to simply pass by in the park that evening knew I worked in law enforcement.
As my son and I headed toward the play equipment, we passed the neighbor, and he and I nodded and smiled politely. Then he turned and asked me if I'd read a recent article about two NYPD officers who had been indicted for various and sundry criminal activities. Honestly, I wasn't paying much attention to the details of the story to which he was referring, because I was distracted by the realization that the only conversation I'd ever had with this neighbor, was a variatiion on the same theme: police misconduct. I realized that he was not interested in weather I'd read the article or what my thoughts were on the matter. Instead, he just wanted to vent about the police to the police. And to him, I was the police. I decided to give him a few minutes to finish his story and then try to politely move on. I suppose I could've responded with my own variation on this theme, such as " Did you hear about the grandfather who abused his grandaughters?' He is, after all, a grandfather. Trust is essential in human relations, professional or otherwise. We entrust doctors with our physical well-being, clergy with our spiritual grownth, teachers with our children, bankers with our money and police officers with our safety. Of course nearly all societal roles carry with them an authority that can be responsibley applied or abused. When that trust is broken-whether by doctors, our teachers, police officers or grandfathers, it is crucial to remember that the acts of a few are not representative of the whole. I am not "the police". I am an individual, proud to work in lawenforcement and certain that I practice my profession responsibly, honestly, passionately and always with a keen awareness of the trust that has been placed in me by those in my community and by those with whom I serve. As human beings , we all have a responsibility to each other and should all be held accountable for our behavior, regardless of our profession. Why, then, is the law-enforcement profession so easily criticized, and why do so many believe they know how to do our job better than we do? Few people think it is their place to tell a doctor, or a carpenter , or a financial advisor how to do his job if they know nothing of what they speak. It is difficult enough to sustain enthusiasm for one's work when a significant portion of the people encountered did not seek you out, and are not pleased that you are there. One can deflect only so much second-guessing, and rude commentary ("I pay your salary!") "Why aren't you out catching real criminals?" "Why didn't they just shoot them in the leg?", before it begins to instill a sense of alienation. A continued absence of support and and an "us vs them" paradigm can breed a type of isolation and disconnect. This, in turn, can create an atmosphere ripe for some people-who got into this profession to make a difference for the better-to take a turn for the worse. Too often , stories printed in newspapers and reported on the 6 o'clock news perpetuate a mistrust of police. The mistakes of a few officers are held out as representative of the profession, or, worse, officers who acted justifiably have doubt cast upon them when none is warranted. And as with media coverage when the occasional plane crashes, an objective perspective is lost because no one hears about the thousands of successful flights that occur each day. Lawenforcement is a noble profession made up of individual men and women who pilot countless successful "flights" in their careers under the most turbulent conditions. A single officer shouldn't be held accountable for every instance of police misconduct any more than a single snowflake should be blamed for a blizzard. It is better to engage meaningfully with officers, avoiding sweeping generalizations, and perhaps even offering a simple thank-you. Odds are it is well deserved and long overdue.